Congratulations!
You’re getting married.
Welcome to your Planning Suite! This is your hub for creating your ceremony. Whether you’re ready to dive into your love story, lock in the logistics, or find inspiration for your vows, you’ll find everything you need right here.
My goal is to make the ceremony the easiest (and best) part of your planning. Take your time; I’m with you every step of the way.
12-6 Months out | 6-3 Months out | 3 Months-2 Weeks out
Phase 1
The Vision & The Vibe
When: 12 – 6 Months Out
This is the dreaming stage. Before we get into the who stands where logistics, we focus on the feeling, this phase is all about capturing your unique dynamic and deciding what kind of atmosphere you want to create for your guests.
A high-level look at our journey together. No stress, just milestones.
Not sure if you’re “Elevated Classic” or “Short, Sharp, and Sparkling”? Let’s find your fit.
Coming soon
Phase 2
The Heart of the Matter
When: 6 – 3 Months Out
Now that the foundations are laid, we start building the content that will make your ceremony truly memorable. This is where we focus on the words you’ll say and the songs that will soundtrack your biggest moments.
Exclusive Client Resource
Don’t let the blank page intimidate you. This guide is packed with prompts, structures, and tips to help you write vows that sound exactly like you, not a greeting card.
Exclusive Client Resource
From Flight Mode to choosing the perfect signing song, this guide ensures your ceremony sounds as good as it looks. Includes technical tips for your designated Music Master.
Exclusive for Bespoke Couples
This is your “Home Date Night” activity. Grab a glass of wine, sit out on the deck, and tell me everything. From the first date to the proposal, this is where the magic of your script begins. (Pro tip: You can save as you go!)
Phase 3
The Finer Details
When: 3 Months – 2 Weeks Out
We’re on the home stretch! This phase is for the organisers, the list-makers, and anyone who wants to breathe easy on the wedding morning. We lock in the logistics so that on the day, you can simply show up and be present.
Exclusive for Bespoke Couples
Our final deep dive. This is where we confirm your witnesses, technical cues, readings, and any special mentions. It’s the logistics Safety Net that lets us both relax.
Coming soon
Exclusive Client Resource
Everything you need to know about our walk-through—who needs to be there, what we’ll practice, and how to keep the nerves at bay.
A plain-English guide to navigating the NZ BDM website, applying for your Marriage Licence, and understanding those “Particulars of Marriage.”
Coming soon
Exclusive Client Resource
Rings? Licence? A spare tissue? A quick final check to ensure the must-haves are all accounted for before you head to the venue.